Wednesday 8 October 2008

Irene Bruegel

Irene Bruegel, founder and long time Secretary of JfJfP died on Monday 6 October. Her immediate family was with her and she died peacefully.

The service for Irene was held on Friday, 10th October Golders' Green Crematorium. The service was full to overflowing and we heard moving tributes from Irene's family, colleagues and friends. We were reminded of her hard work, her generosity and her insight. The event was a celebration of Irene's life and achievements and a demand on all of us to redouble our efforts to match her contribution. No matter how much we do though, there wil still be a large Irene shaped hole left that will be impossible to fill.

Donations, in memory of Irene, to some of the many causes she supported will be most welcome. Those who knew her primarily for her work with Jews for Justice for Palestinians are asked to consider donating to the British Shalom-Salaam Trust which will establish a fund to commemorate her work . But her concerns were universal and in recent years she was also more and more troubled by the treatment of refugees in Britain. We will select two or three suitable charities and details will be posted in the next day or two.


Irene had long ago been diagnosed with a degenerative auto-immune liver disease for which the only treatment was a transplant. To be considered for this she needed to have an ovarian cyst removed - an operation from which she never recovered because her liver was already so severely depleted.

Irene's energy, commitment and creativity and that of her partner Richard Kuper, were central to the establishment and spectacular growth of JfJfP. She returned from a trip to the West Bank at the end of 2001, determined to do something, and when she was determined, something usually got done. From a meeting of fifteen of Irene and Richard's friends in a pub near Kings Cross, JfJfP has grown into one of the biggest and most influential Jewish organisations campaigning for the end of the Israeli occupation of the Palestinian territories and the negotiation of a just and peaceful settlement in Israel/Palestine. Irene was brimful of ideas about extending JfJfP's work. She avoided sloganizing, ever aware of the importance of reaching people who might join in a campaign for justice, if they were only prompted in a constructive way. She was usually the one who picked up the pieces if one of us dropped them.

For several years Irene also chaired JfJfP's charitable offshoot - the British Shalom Salaam Trust. Her loyalty, determination and tenacity ensured that BSST became a hugely important lifeline for dozens of grassroots education, health, peace and cultural projects on both sides of the Green Line.

In this year, the sixtieth anniversary of Israel's foundation, Irene had two priorities - that the sixtieth anniversary of the Palestinian Nakba be remembered, and that we celebrate the courage of all those Israelis whose lives are committed to combating the occupation. The 'Another Israel' exhibition, which she organized, oversaw, and which continues to be dispatched all over Britain, is a memorial to her imagination and enthusiasm.

Irene was many things - a feminist, an internationalist, a writer and a teacher. Above all, she was an activist, who thought the point of her academic writing and her other work was to effect progressive change. We hope to establish a fund to commemorate her work and will let you know as soon as this has been agreed.

Our thoughts are with Richard and the children, Martin, David, Dan & Jo and the other members of her family.

5 comments:

Deborah Fink said...

I didn't want to be the first to post a comment here but there you go!

I first saw Irene at the first JfJfP Garden Party in July 2002, and then at my first meeting in September. I admired her for going to Palestine and she was my hero for setting up JfJfP without which, I may not have had the same courage to speak out - JfJfP felt like a support group and prevented me from feeling as if I was going against Jews when I criticised Israel. Coming from a pro-Israel family, I had never before mixed with such like minded Jews who were critical of Israel. In a way, JfJfP became my substitute family for a while! But this brought its own problems.....

As someone who was new to activism and new to this cause, I was looking for guidance and saw Irene as an inspiration and a mentor. I was particularly drawn to her as she was lively, good fun, mischievous and a rebel! She encouraged me, saw qualities in me which no one else had and seemed to appreciate what I had to offer, more so than the other founder members.

I might add that another thing I have to thank Irene for is for giving me ideas whch eventually formed my political cabaret act. In fact, she invented the name, having used it for when I sang at a JfJfP Garden Party: 'The Diva with a Difference'.

I felt we had a special rapport and shared a similar sense of humour and irony. Irene told me that she could see a lot of herself in me, and I do think we shared some of the same qualities, and faults. We became quite close and her and Richard made me feel like part of their family. I had always worried about her working too hard and kept trying to warn her against over-doing things, right up to before she went into hospital.....

Sadly, after a couple of years, things started to go wrong between us, with personal issues and misunderstandings getting mixed up with JfJfP ones. These were never really resolved and made life difficult for me in JfJfP. Although we sometimes still got on, it was only in her last weeks, and on an occasion earlier in the year, that Irene and I regained that rapport. Indeed, I was touched that she wanted me to visit her in hospital - some were less fortunate and never got to see her again.

I was keen to visit her as I'd heard she was having difficulty breathing and it was thought that I, being a singing teacher, might be able to help. Even though she was so ill and her body was fast in decline, her mind was as sharp as ever and her sense of humour in tact. I will cherish this last memory of sitting by her hospital bed, laughing and joking with her and her daughter Jo, like old times. Irene joked that there wasn't much left to go wrong now. And they both laughed at my sick joke about where she could get a liver from:
'There is someone in Israel, who doesn't need a liver anymore- he's brain dead...! The trouble is, you can inherit the characteristics of the donor, so you might find that you destroy JfJfP!'
I can't remember whether I added the bit about the liver being old and fat.....!

I always felt that Irene had found it hard to receive love and recognise care, until the end. And it seemed that it was only then, that she woke up to the reality and appreciated that a lot of people cared about her.

I will dearly miss Irene. JfJfP and indeed, the Palestine solidarity world, will never be the same again. Although in the last year she was too ill to go to all the demonstrations and public meetings, it will be strange never seeing her again in these contexts. She has left a hole.

Deborah Fink

Yael Oren Kahn said...

Irene was a wonderful and inspiring woman. She was like fire in her passion, commitment and enthusiasm. Irene gave her time generously even when her illness weakened her.

Irene was advising Islington Friends of Yibna and helped us in a number of ways and encouraged us to keep on establishing IFY, in spite of the hard time we had.

The Palestinian journalist Mohammed Omer, the winner of the Martha Gellhorn prize for journalism, wrote from his home in Yibna, Gaza: "sorry to hear about the death of Irene. This is so sad! Please pass on my condolences to her family and friends".

c in london said...

i had the great priviledge to be at the funeral today, and as we sang jerusalem i felt it really was a celebration of Irene . it was so touching to join her family and her friends and be someone who had been touched by this extraordinary person who was Irene.it's strange how you don't usually notice how extraordinary your mates are, they just tend to be there. Irene and Richard i met when the kids were at day care, and we had some fascinating times,Including our heroic battle to save Jones brothers, Knowingly undersold.I last bumped into Irene on the bus a couple of months ago. we just caught up and she was so full of that Irene quality that so many of us knew so well and found so attractive May she be at peace and find happiness, and her family as well. claire hershman

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